Did you just call me fat?

This just a quick story about getting called fat, but not by a peer or someone my age, my a teacher, yes a teacher called me fat.

So i was just being a normal student in my biology class and we were chatting as most students do during lessons, 80% of my class were talk and suddenly my teacher shouts:

"Dan shut your big fat face!" 

in pure shock and horror i naturally go bright red and to be quite frank i was furious. so i reply:

"Did you just call me fat?" 

in which she tries to justify herself by saying:

"oh no i say that to my husband all the time"

Really, her husband? at this point i kinda wanted to make myself cry to make her feel really bad but instead i said:

"but we aren't married" 

and i walked out of the lesson bright red and furious, she had no right to say that and in reality I'm not fat, I'm no where near fat, and especially seeing as i've had weigh issues in my past i obviously took this very seriously. Whilst out of the classroom my fellow class mates convinced the teacher that i was crying. which i wasn't. 

It been about 2 weeks now and she still hasn't apologised to me, despite having reported her. i know it may sound petty that i reported her to my head of year but saying that kind of thing to anyone in front of all their peers and classmates is extremely traumatising even if it isn't true, but she doesn't know what happens in my personal life, i've recently recovered from an eating disorder and because of what she said i could start starving myself again, and who knows what that could lead to.

But thanks to all of you readers, viewers, subscribers and friends i've stayed strong and my new levels of confidence helped me just forget what she said and move on with live, don't listen to what other people say their opinions aren't that important, the most important thing is how you view yourself, if you think you're attractive, thats because you are, only ever point out your good points, because you don't have faults.

imperfections are our perfections, and you're pretty fricken awesome as well, don't forget that

Dan. 

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